New Femdom Illustrated Vignette Site

Femdomocracy has prospered since I started it back at the end of March.

Two weeks ago I decided to create another Female Domination illustrated vignette site.

It is called Femdomous.

Matriarchal Marriage & Gynosupremacist Future

A Woman writes about her female led household in which all males are submissive, gynarchy and the coming woman ruled future.Read Her Words..

Femdomology

My newest Female Domination site:

Femdomology

Femdom Tumblr

I am toying in a very limited way with Tumblr. I'm not really sure what focus and shape I will give to this Tumblr blog. (It will never be as complete as my Titter feed).

Here is the link:

Polyfetishist's Tumblr

I have a dim impression that there is tremendous emotional investment in being 'followed back.' This reminds me of high school. Pleae follow this Tumblr only if it gives you pleasure. Not as part of a quantity fetish.

Femdom 'Zines

Femdom and female domination vintage magazine covers.

Female Led Relationships from A - Z

A a list of posts, each illustrated, forming a Female Led Relationships Alphabet.

Gene Bilbrew Archive

A web site devoted exclusively to the drawings and paintings of Gene Bilbrew.

Gene Bilbrew Archive

Bernard Montorgueil

A small site devoted to the F/m BDSM art of Bernard Montorgueil:

Bernard Montorgueil

Kinky Attire

Yet another blog. This one - despite the title - only indirectly related to BDSM and fetish. It is about clothing and models. Created mostly because I run across a fair amount of material falling within a certain range. To be honest I'm not able to give this site that much attention.

But do visit:

Kinky Attire

Sardax on Sunday

I'm posting an illustration - supplied by Sardax himself - once every Sunday afternoon for several weeks.

Sardax on Sunday

Dungeon Domination Special

Dungeon Domination is the latest addition to the collection of vintage femdom magazines.

Funnybook Femdom

Dominatrix Cherry:So Have You Been Like Really Bad or What?

Is my latest addition to the Comic Book Femdom collection.

Reminder

I mostly keep the Blogger account because you can't leave comments on a very few Blogger blogs without one.

My main blog is Down On My Knees. You may also be interested in Female Led Relationships, Femdom Romance and BDSM Romance.

All visitors welcome: comments and questions are encouraged.

Take care and best wishes for fulfillment of your personal and erotic needs, desires and wishes.

Femdom Blogging for Dummies (Short Version)

Some nights I feel like such a wicked man.

But I can't help but feel that if I wanted to I could coldly craft a popular blog about female domination. I've seen so many come and go. I know which sparked a strong reader response while they were about.

For female tops:

• Be aggrieved and find fault
• Complain about stereotypes
• Write something very sadistic
• Explain how sadism can be romantic

For male bottoms:

• Document the improbable inadequacy of your penis as a three dimensional object
• Explain in detail how you persuaded your wife to cheat on you with another man
• Say something passionately submissive and romantic
• Illimitable chastity
• Relentless feminization / sissyfication

More:

• Charming photographs and illustrations
• Sensitivity and romantic tenderness

.

Of course those are just the broad outlines. You'd want to craft a distinctive syntax.

And there is that dark and terrible question: how many dominant women on the web are really submissive guys.

(I'd actually meant for this entry to be more substantive but found myself replying to emails and now it is time for me to go to sleep. Negative expectations are inexpensive, surely you can add a few.)

Help For Blogging, Thinking About D/s & S&M

Fetish Meme is meant supply prompts for writing about and thinking about consensual erotic power exchange relationships. It is designed to be a simple tool to help you get started and clarifying your own thinking.

Fetish Meme

Female Supremacy Links

Let us take a look at the claims of women as inherently better than men:

• The Girl From Rio



• From Gyno-Utopians to Gyno-Fascists



• Female Chauvinism vs. Gynosupremacy



• Gyneolatry vs. Gynarchy



• Femdom Synarchy - Insecurity?



• Matrifascist from Beyond Space



• Female Supremacy as Metaphor

If you are looking for believers in female political and social rule this section of Femdom Blogs: Female Supremacy will be a source of inspiration.

Female Led Relationships Net

There's a new website focusing on female led relationships, loving female authority and female superiority:

Female Led Relationships (Net)

Fetish Lore Forums

I've been surprised by how many of my favorite F/m blog authors - and some women who don't keep blogs but comment on them - have joined and are participating in the forum.

Fetish Lore

First Femdom Novel

Female Led Relationships

Duration & Intensity

For me duration is a barrier that I'd like to push at. For me BDSM has proven to be a part of my romantic life and I'd like to see how many variations we can explore. It is also pure pleasure and there's no shame in wanting more of that. And mind altering - not to lay too much stress on that - and I can't help but wondering what longer experiences would feel like.

A Thought Experiment

But I don't want to discuss this in terms of myself particularly. More as a detached weighing of possibilities.

Read all of Exploring Duration

Comfortable Kinky Conversations

I must've fallen and hit my head. After refusing requests that I do so I'm - with the help of friends - setting up a forum site: Fetish Lore.

I still consider the forum to be "beta" as I'm still working out all the kinks to insure that kinky people will enjoy visiting.

Who I hope will participate:

People who feel that BDSM clichés and stereotypes don't fit them.

People who don't see any problem mixing kink and fetish with love and romance.

Women and men who are new to power exchange and maybe feel a little lost and confused and would like a non-judgmental environment where they can talk about their feelings.

It is meant to be a play to relax, talk and have a good time.

If that sounds good to you feel free to drop by Fetish Lore

List Your Blog (Doesn't Cost Anything)

While there are a large number of erotic and kinky blogs listed in The Polyfetishist Directory there is plenty of room for more. If you write about sexuality I strongly encourage you to list your blog: no fee, no obligation. Just helping people find others of similar sexuality.

Help for Femdom Bloggers

For some people keeping up a blog is tough. Even if it is a topic you care about you may have trouble coming up with a topic.

Every few days on Femdom Blogs for the near future a suggested topic will appear. None of this is especially profound or unusual. But you might want to bookmark the topic page and check it every now and then.

At first it will be just the most basic - simple - issues. As the series progresses the themes will become less commonplace.

The page: Suggested Topics for Your Blogs

Twenty Truths About Femdom

20 Maxims

Valentine's Day

 

Alexandra and I exchange Valentine's Day greetings from our respective sites:

• To Richard


• A Valentine for My Beloved

New Interview

As fascinating as Richard is, he's yet to appear here officially at Sex-Kitten. We had to remedy that ~ and quickly.

Richard, an interview

New Chastity Site

The emphasis is on clarity and sanity. Not whacko fantasies or self-destructive personal imagery.

Femdom Chastity

Femdom Fiction

Often very concise with more implied than told. Written to communicate to a specific person for the most part. But possibly adaptable for your own fantasy purposes re the Femdom sketches I wrote some time back:

Sketches

Pervertables & Advice

Typically when I've collected interesting information on perverse practices I've put them on my personal D/s blog. Now I'll be putting them on a different site:

BDSM Reference

More than likely I will be posting as many if not pointers to reference and educational sites as original content. Just an attempt to make it easier for people to find help and information.

Read the Interview

I'm the current Spotlight Perve at Kink-a-Go-Go:

It seems like if you Google anything fetish you come across, "Down on my Knees," a blog by a self-proclaimed, "Pansexual Polyfetishist : Alexandra's Lover, Pet & Slave," or Richard, if you look hard enough.

Let's Play 20 Questions with the Blogger from Down on my Knees

Two Years of Writing About Chastity

Explorations of male orgasm denial.

Mostly About Male Submissives and Their Genitals

Recent notes:

Chastity Belt for Christmas

Herbs, Spices and CBT

Bondage as Bliss

Being Milked

Rudeness in the Female Domination Blogosphere

Negative Comments on Femdom Blogs

Best Parts of Dominance or Submission in Your Life?

I've tried to sum up what kink, fetish - woman worship - means in my life.

This effort is as much an attempt to help others sum up their feelings.

Doesn't matter if you are LFA, ProDomme old school kink.

My hope is that you'll publish your own response (or if you don't write online you'll leave your list as a comment).

And for the first time ever I'm soliciting links to the entry. I'd like to see it reach out in hopes of interesting responses from dominant and submissive people.

10 Best Things About BDSM

Femdom: Lifestyle and/or Fun?

Given the illusions and delusions some people have and the actual way some F/m couples really do live I'm glad Alexandra brought up certain issues on her blog today. I'd like to see what some of you in varying depths and kinds of F/m relationships and marriages have to say. And I think in a comment of my own I've come up with one of the better summations of what Alexandra has given me.

Your own response is solicited: Recreational Femdom, Total Power Exchange, and The Great Inbetween

About This

Here's a bit of the backstory for those of you who stumble my way.

I'm in a half the time long distance relationship with my beloved Alexandra. I live in North Carolina, she in England. We get three months together, then three or more months apart.

When she is gone I tend to fill in the void by blogging excessively

As I've tried to explain I do this mostly for fun.

Aside from my personal D/s weblog, Down On My Knees, I have a few small F/m and kink themed sites that are designed to help people with kinky needs find interesting blogs to read and maybe enable them to find fulfillment in their own lives.

If good humor and good will don't come across in some of what I do it is due to my limits and not my intent.

My Lifestyle is Better than Yours!

I wasn't really happy with what I tried in the prior note so I expanded it:

Who Has the Best BDSM?

Rude Submissive Men

Intolerance in the BDSM Community

Ejaculation Without Orgasm & Enforced Chastity

Three things on a more or less common theme that appear to be popular:

• How Do You Milk a Man?
• Ruined Orgasms
• Orgasm Denial

Fixed Day & Time for Whipping Practice?

Alexandra has been writing about possible developments in our S&M play.

Scheduled whippings at fixed times seems like a really promising idea:

• BDSM Timetable

The Candace Controversy

Was Candace a fake?

Alexandra's Blog

My beloved is writing again so I'd like to give you a pointer
to Sensual Sadist.

Two Years

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About Polyfetishist

While this is not my site for self-expression about the role of BDSM in my life I realize that I should supply a limited context for those of you who find yourself here.

I'm a slavish masochist who is very much in love with his sadistic Domina. We engage in everything from sweet pet play, to heavy corporal punishment, strong humiliation and whatever fetishes seem to offer mutual satisfaction.

While I have a very real need for my beloved to take the lead neither of us pretends that it is all about her. If we both did not find satisfaction in our interplay the love affair would expire.

Sadly my beloved is British. That means we spend months apart and months together. During the latter I channel my energy into websites, mostly kinky, primarily educational. (A nice way of saying that I don't really profit from them.)

Honestly I probably would not have established a Blogger account if a few worthwhile Blogspot blogs didn't require one for leaving comments.

Given that I host my sites on my own domains I don't post anything substantive here. but do on and off post links to some of the things I do or have written that I hope will be of use to others.

Advice Even for "Femdom Light"

If your relationship is defined by the current vogue words of female led relationship, wife led marriage and loving female authority you may be uncomfortable with the word slave. But many FLR, WLM, LFA marriages, love affairs sound much like traditional female dominant relationships that existed long before Elise Sutton or Ms. Abernathy took to their typewriters.

Whether you are comfortable with the word Femdom or not this short list of proper behavior works for almost any relationship involving the exchange of power. Really they might be called conscious civility or directed attentiveness or whathaveyou:

Rules for Voluntary Slaves

Many of us have certain acts - call them fetishes - that we require. Ignoring them is planting a timebomb in your relationship. Spell them out so you can see if any of them are problematic so you can move on to more subtle things:

Male Slave Checklist

The Joyful Romance of Woman Worship

I already had this site planned when I started the dating site.

After all once a F/m couple has established an intimate relationship the next step is to preserve and deepen the commitment and passion. Hence,

Femdom Romance

It is my hope that some of you - a few already have - will share at least one story of your happiness as the giver or recipient of woman worship.

Kinky Blogger Tips & Tricks

Some folks start a D/s or S&M blog and go "WOW! Look at all the people who are reading me!" or "Damn, nobody knows I'm here."

On BDSM Weblogs I'm going to post a few tips for gaining greater visibility for your kinky blog. As time - all too often in short supply - permits. The first post was tonight. I hope to follow it up with more within the week.

My intent is to focus on simple things, not attempt to make anyone into the Supreme Fetish Blogger or the like.

BDSM Blogging

Latest Project: F/m Dating Advice

Femdom Dating

A small simple site for collecting help for dominant women and submissive men - of all varieties - would are looking for someone to play with or love forever.

If you have a happy story or some advice to share I'd be delighted to publish it.

BDSM Psychology 101 (Mine Anyway)

A couple of entries that I'm happy with as exploration of the development of my fetish needs and desires from childhood on:

• The Path to Here

My best effort at understanding why I find such pure satisfaction in being subservient:

• The Path to Submissiveness

We each have our own personal "psychohistories" of coming to have kinks, fetishes, whatever you wish to call them. It is a pleasure to develop some comprehension of their roots.

"Postmodern" Female Domination

Despite the possibly pretentious seeming title I've decided that this entry does a reasonable job of summing up some of the BDSM related issues that have been on my mind of late:

Post-Femdom?

Confusion

Sometimes when I comment on a blog I use this blogger account. Other times I post as Richard with a link to my much more substantial blog. Switching back and forth is just a sign of absent-mindedness and I apologize if I've ever created any confusion or appeared to be attempting to be two different people.

Polyfetishist on MySpace

With no distinct goal in mind I've created a MySpace account. If you add me to your friend's list mention where you found the mention so I'll know you aren't one of the mere friend collectors.

Richard at MySpace

Why

Naturally after saying you aren’t going to anymore, naturally one must post …

My goals in writing on the web are twofold:

Self-exploration: I find that writing publicly seems to enable additional critical thinking about what I think and feel. If only after I’ve published some very foolish words.

Education: having been lucky enough to see my sexuality flourish and grow I hope I can give a few people a nudge or two toward sexual self-realization.

Changing My Mind ...

I've decided to put the blog about the directory on one of my own domains: I'm just not up to letting things be controlled by a third party service.

Aside from the directory, this is my kinky personal blog:

• Down On My Knees

My beloved's:

• Sensual Sadist

Drop by anytime.

Moved One of My Sites

My oldest sexuality blog has been around for years.

It is part of a domain with several themed areas. I'd toyed with moving Amorous Propensities to a separate domain but was reluctant because of all the people that link to the original location.

But yesterday I decided to risk all that and give it a domain of its own:

Amorous Propensities

Sites By and For Gay Women

Being male I rarely run into blogs by and resources for lesbians. I'd really appreciate having some added to Polyfetishist.

20 Days 200 Listings

Polyfetishist is twenty days old and has two hundred sites listed.

Hopefully more and more people will be adding their sites - or ones they find worthwhile - and Polyfetishist will become mostly self-maintaining.

Bizarre Blogspot Bug

After upgrading the software that powers the site I found myself unable to add links to any of the Blogspot blogs. After considerable tinkering I deleted the whole setup, reinstalled it afresh and Blogspot sites can be added again.

Greetings from Polyfetishist

I'm not sure how frequently I'll be updating this.

My primary reason for establishing a Blogger account was to enable me to comment on Blogger blogs that don't allow comments otherwise.