Given the illusions and delusions some people have and the actual way some F/m couples really do live I'm glad Alexandra brought up certain issues on her blog today. I'd like to see what some of you in varying depths and kinds of F/m relationships and marriages have to say. And I think in a comment of my own I've come up with one of the better summations of what Alexandra has given me.
Your own response is solicited: Recreational Femdom, Total Power Exchange, and The Great Inbetween
Here's a bit of the backstory for those of you who stumble my way.
I'm in a half the time long distance relationship with my beloved Alexandra. I live in North Carolina, she in England. We get three months together, then three or more months apart.
When she is gone I tend to fill in the void by blogging excessively
As I've tried to explain I do this mostly for fun.
Aside from my personal D/s weblog, Down On My Knees, I have a few small F/m and kink themed sites that are designed to help people with kinky needs find interesting blogs to read and maybe enable them to find fulfillment in their own lives.
If good humor and good will don't come across in some of what I do it is due to my limits and not my intent.
I wasn't really happy with what I tried in the prior note so I expanded it:
Three things on a more or less common theme that appear to be popular:
Alexandra has been writing about possible developments in our S&M play.
Scheduled whippings at fixed times seems like a really promising idea:
