Monday, September 11, 2006

Advice Even for "Femdom Light"

If your relationship is defined by the current vogue words of female led relationship, wife led marriage and loving female authority you may be uncomfortable with the word slave. But many FLR, WLM, LFA marriages, love affairs sound much like traditional female dominant relationships that existed long before Elise Sutton or Ms. Abernathy took to their typewriters.

Whether you are comfortable with the word Femdom or not this short list of proper behavior works for almost any relationship involving the exchange of power. Really they might be called conscious civility or directed attentiveness or whathaveyou:

Rules for Voluntary Slaves

Many of us have certain acts - call them fetishes - that we require. Ignoring them is planting a timebomb in your relationship. Spell them out so you can see if any of them are problematic so you can move on to more subtle things:


Male Slave Checklist

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